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10 Unique Traits Men Are Attracted to in Women

I have often heard that guys are attracted to what they see, and I believe that’s true to some extent. However, it will be a mistake to think that’s all they look out for; it isn’t, especially when it concerns… Continue Reading →

15 Useful Kitchen Gadgets for New Couples

Recently, I was fortunate to help a friend organise her kitchen as a new bride. I say fortunate because I learnt a lot doing it.  Now, don’t get me wrong; I cook and I have an adequate kitchen – if… Continue Reading →

13 Important Things Every Woman Should Do Before Marriage

Wanting to get married is a valid reason. Unfortunately, many women think this desire is enough to prepare for marriage.  But it isn’t; there are certain important things every woman should do before marriage.  This is because, like people usually… Continue Reading →

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Has Deep Respect For You

One of the things that amazes me about conversations surrounding romantic relationships is the discussion of men needing respect while women need love.  It probably wouldn’t grate so much if they didn’t make those two concepts exclusive.  Now, you might… Continue Reading →

15 Thoughtful Acts Guys Do Only When They Are In Love

Let me apologise in advance that this article will be filled with stories about my boyfriend and how I knew he was the one for me.  And I mean, why not? We are talking about thoughtful acts guys do only… Continue Reading →

10 Obvious Signs Your Boyfriend Is Manipulating You

This particular topic is quite sad for me to write about because it hits close to home. I have a close friend who barely survived being in a relationship with a manipulative boyfriend.  I spoke to her recently, and that… Continue Reading →

A Wise Woman Will Never Marry a Man With These Traits

I know you want to get married; I do too.  So, I understand the struggle and pressure – especially when you are in a certain age bracket.  But one thing I always ask myself is: do you want to have… Continue Reading →

9 Astounding Reasons Women Date Men They Don’t Love

Ideally, women should only date men they love. But if you’ve lived long enough, you know that that’s not only what happens.  Several women have been known to date men they don’t love.  As illogical as you may think this… Continue Reading →

Signs He Believes You Are The One For Him

Being in love is beautiful. However, it can also be the hardest thing ever. One thing that makes it difficult is if you aren’t sure what your significant other thinks about you. It doesn’t matter if you believe he is… Continue Reading →

10 Warning Signs You Are Being Love Bombed

Love bombing initially looks like the best thing to happen to you when you don’t know what it is. The love-bomber showers you with many declarations of love, affection, attention and gifts. And you may think you have met the… Continue Reading →

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