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15 Thoughtful Acts Guys Do Only When They Are In Love

Let me apologise in advance that this article will be filled with stories about my boyfriend and how I knew he was the one for me.  And I mean, why not? We are talking about thoughtful acts guys do only… Continue Reading →

How to Overcome People Pleasing

Most of us have done it at some point – said “yes” when you wanted to scream “no” or agreed to help out again, even though you were running on empty.  You smiled, nodded, and swallowed your frustration just to… Continue Reading →

10 Obvious Signs Your Boyfriend Is Manipulating You

This particular topic is quite sad for me to write about because it hits close to home. I have a close friend who barely survived being in a relationship with a manipulative boyfriend.  I spoke to her recently, and that… Continue Reading →

12 Time Management Tips for Young Professionals

Before I learnt and started practicing the practical time management tips I will discuss in this post, I was sure 24 hours was not enough for me.  It just seemed like every day ran by without me achieving all I… Continue Reading →

A Wise Woman Will Never Marry a Man With These Traits

I know you want to get married; I do too.  So, I understand the struggle and pressure – especially when you are in a certain age bracket.  But one thing I always ask myself is: do you want to have… Continue Reading →

How To Build Wealth in Your 30s

Hurray,  you are on the 3rd floor! Although this is a milestone to be happy about, this new age also comes with anxieties, hopes, and aspirations. Among these are establishing career paths, starting a family, paying rent, and building wealth… Continue Reading →

12 Productivity Tips for Young Professionals to Stay Relevant

Being productive is non-negotiable in the work environment. No employer is willing to pay an employee who is not contributing to the progress of the organisation. As a young professional, there are times when work can be demanding with a… Continue Reading →

9 Astounding Reasons Women Date Men They Don’t Love

Ideally, women should only date men they love. But if you’ve lived long enough, you know that that’s not only what happens.  Several women have been known to date men they don’t love.  As illogical as you may think this… Continue Reading →

Spending Habits That Keep You Poor

Last year, I started the year with a full bank account. I made a lot and often checked my account in awe because I couldn’t believe what I saw sometimes.  But as the year progressed, I soon started living paycheck… Continue Reading →

Habits To Imbibe To Achieve Financial Freedom

Many people dream about achieving financial freedom. Unfortunately, financial independence doesn’t come easily; we must work to achieve it. Also, you can’t be financially free if you make a financially wise decision once every year or quarterly. Financial freedom can… Continue Reading →

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