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WE ARE OUR OWN ENEMIES

I had a class in women development recently and it was quite a controversial class. Most of what we discussed were the factors that hindered the development of women, and how these factors were directly or indirectly connected to men…. Continue Reading →

HOW I MET MY FUTURE HUSBAND

I noticed him as soon as I stepped into the room. It was as though he was the only one in the room even though it contained more than twenty people. It was my friend, Dumebi’s brother’s birthday celebration. And… Continue Reading →

THE WOMEN OF WAKANDA

By the time you are reading this, you are probably thinking it is stale already … you are absolutely right, but read it anyways. I was obsessed … scratch that … I am completely obsessed with Black Panther. I knew… Continue Reading →

How to Communicate Effectively in a Relationship

Communication is the bedrock of any relationship. Relationship experts always emphasise the importance of communicating effectively in a relationship because they know the danger otherwise. Personally, I believe that one of the greatest reasons for issues in any relationship, romantic… Continue Reading →

What Love Is Not

There are so many misconceptions about what love is online today. If you go online to find the definition or indicator of love, you are likely to find people talking about fairy tales or explaining it as depicted in romance… Continue Reading →

10 Tips on How to Remain Happy

“I want to be happy” If this is your disposition to life, trust me, it is very valid. A lot of us are actually in pursuit of happiness anyway, the reason why it seems to elude many of us is… Continue Reading →

3 Misconceptions About Unemotional People

There are so many misconceptions about unemotional people that for some reason a lot of people seem to believe. If you are unemotional, I’m sure you understand where I’m coming from. I, personally, have lost a relationship because he thought… Continue Reading →

LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

Will Smith clocked 50 recently – I think few weeks ago and he went for one historic jump around the Grand Canyon. But that’s not the story. I saw pictures and videos on his, his wife’s and ex-wife’s IG page…. Continue Reading →

WE ONLY HAVE ONE ANOTHER

Last election, I supported Former President Goodluck Jonathan against President Buhari and I remembered the jabs to my person that I suffered. Some, I cautioned; some I smiled at. Even then, I knew it wasn’t necessary. I didn’t have anything… Continue Reading →

MARRIED OR MARRIED

I read a story a while back on Facebook. According to the story, a lady married a man who is more conservative than she is and she is now living with regret. The Cliffs Notes version is that he told… Continue Reading →

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