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Author Ayandola Ayanleke

Things Women Can Do that Annoy Men

Society allows women to be vocal about whatever is bothering them because apparently, women are emotional. Men, on the other hand, are shamed for expressing their emotions. So, a lot of men are not as vocal about issues bothering them… Continue Reading →

Signs He Is Not That Into You

Is he into me or not? This is a question that many of us can relate to. The guy could be a friend or a guy we just met and he’s giving mixed signals. Or it could be a guy… Continue Reading →

Clear Ways to Improve Your Relationship

Relationship is work, and this cuts across all types of relationships. If you want your relationship to grow or last, you have to put in the work. One thing I have realised is that many of the relationships that broke… Continue Reading →

Why You Are in Love with the Wrong Person and How to Stop

Being in love with the wrong person can be emotionally draining. Nobody wants to be in a relationship with the one they love but doesn’t love them back. However, life is not always fair; that is why we have to… Continue Reading →

Things You Should Not Sacrifice in a Relationship

A healthy relationship requires sacrifice. In fact, one of the red flags one should watch out for in a relationship is someone who isn’t ready to make sacrifices or compromises in the relationship. However, there are also certain things you… Continue Reading →

Signs He Has Given Up on the Relationship

Wanting to be loved and having a companion comes naturally to most of us and it is nothing to be ashamed of. But it is one thing to be loved genuinely and another thing to think we are loved genuinely…. Continue Reading →

How to Be a Woman of His Dreams

You probably already have the idea of the man you want to date and marry in your head and it is only expected that you do. And you are probably not hearing this for the first time but men also… Continue Reading →

Habits of a Confident Woman

Confidence is always attractive; this is a simple explanation for why confident women get things done and get people to listen to them. The thing about confidence is that you don’t have to be an expert in whatever you are… Continue Reading →

Keys to Understanding Men Better

A while back I wrote an article on understanding women better at the request of one of my male readers. As I mentioned in that article, he reached out to me to write an article for men to understand women… Continue Reading →

Warning Signs He Is Not the One You Should Marry

It might sound like a cliché when people say your marriage can make or mar you but when you speak to women who married the wrong men, you will see that this is not even said enough. The truth is… Continue Reading →

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