Ways to Tell a First Date Went Well

First dates can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. This is largely because you’re getting to know someone new and trying to make a good impression.

Unfortunately, you and your date can have completely different impressions of each other. While you might go home gushing about how you enjoyed yourself, the other person might be dreading meeting you again.

So, it can be difficult to determine the success of a first date considering people can be unpredictable and sometimes hard to read.

However, certain telltale signs can indicate whether or not a first date went well.

By paying attention to these signs, you can better understand how your date felt about the experience and whether or not they would be interested in seeing you again.

Telltale Signs Your First Date Was a Success

1. The conversation flowed easily and there were no awkward silences. Although awkward silences do not always mean a lack of compatibility, some people might not be willing to try again when there is no easy flow of conversation.
2. Your date was genuinely interested in getting to know you and asked questions about your life.
3. Your date made an effort to dress nicely and looked good for the date.
4. Your date arrived on time and showed up with a positive attitude that indicated they might be interested in something beyond that night.
5. Your date was a good listener and participated actively in the conversation.
6. Your date was open and honest with you and looked comfortable sharing personal information.
7. Your date made an effort to speak about or plan activities they believe you’d enjoy.
8. Your date looked like they are having a good time. One way to tell is if they were laughing and smiling throughout the date.
9. Your date touched your arm or hand while talking, indicating that they are either comfortable with you or physically attracted to you.
10. Your date made eye contact and seemed engaged in what you were saying.
11. Your date mentioned wanting to see you again or made specific future plans.
12. Your date walked you to your car or walked you home after the date.
13. Your date texted or called you shortly after the date to thank you and say they had a good time.
14. Your date expressed their interest to have a second date with you.
15. Your date asked questions about and seemed genuinely interested in your passions and hobbies.
16. Your date made an effort to connect with you on a deeper level by sharing personal stories or experiences.
17. Your date seemed to be comfortable around you and wasn’t overly nervous or anxious.
18. Your date showed enthusiasm for trying new things or activities with you.
19. Your date seemed to enjoy your company and was happy to spend time with you.
20. Your date mentioned that they are having a great time or enjoying themselves.

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Examples of What to Text After a First Date That Went Well

If a first date went well on your end and you want to communicate that in a text, the overwhelming emotions you are likely feeling can make coming up with the right words challenging.

So, to help you, we’ve come up with 30 text messages you can send after a first date that went well.

1. Hi, just wanted to say thank you for a great time last night. I had a really good time getting to know you.
2. Hey, I just wanted to let you know that I enjoyed our date last night. You’re a joy to be around.
3. Last night was so much fun! I can’t wait to do it again sometime if you don’t mind.
4. Thank you for an amazing first date. I’m already looking forward to our next one.
5. I had a great time last night. I really enjoyed your company and I can’t wait to do it again.
6. Thanks for a wonderful date. I had a great time getting to know you and I’d love to do it again soon.
7. I had such a great time on our date last night. I enjoyed talking to you last night and I could talk to you for hours.
8. Just wanted to let you know that I really enjoyed our date last night. You’re such a delightful person, and I’m looking forward to knowing you better.
9. Thanks for an amazing evening. I’m glad I got to know you and I’m excited to see where this goes.
10. Last night was so much fun! I’m really looking forward to more nights like it.
11. You’re such a fun person and I had a wonderful time on our date last night. Can’t wait to see you again.
12. Thanks for a fantastic evening. You’re a great person and I can’t wait to see you again.
13. I had such a great time on our date last night. I love your sense of humour and I can’t wait to make you laugh again.
14. You’re such a warm and genuine person, and I’m so glad I got to meet you last night.
15. Thanks for a wonderful evening. You’re an interesting person and I want to get to know you better. I hope you feel the same way.
16. I had a great time on our date last night. Your company was a lot of fun and I’m already looking forward to our next date.
17. Thanks for a fantastic evening. You’re an amazing person and I can’t wait to see you again.
18. Last night was so much fun! I enjoyed laughing with you and can’t wait to do it again.
19. Just wanted to let you know that I had an amazing time on our date last night. I can only hope that you enjoyed it too.
20. Thank you for a wonderful evening. It was an interesting date; one I wouldn’t mind experiencing again.
21. I had a great time last night. I hope you enjoyed my company as much as I enjoyed yours.
22. Last night was fantastic. I’m already looking forward to our next one.
23. Last night was so much fun! Your sense of humour is contagious and I can’t wait to share jokes again.
24. Just wanted to let you know that I had a great time on our date last night. It really exceeded my expectations.
25. Thanks for an interesting night. I hope you don’t mind that I am looking forward to the next one.
26. You are such a fun person to be around. Thank you for making me comfortable on our date last night.
27. Last night was amazing and I’m so glad I got to spend it with you.
28. I had such a great time getting to know you on our date. Can’t wait to do it again soon.
29. Our date was wonderful and I’m so glad I had the chance to spend time with you.
30. I must confess that I was a little nervous before the date. So, I just wanted to thank you for being such a great and comfortable company.

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